Category Archives: Parenthood

Despising Love

It’s pre-bedtime, and Zechariah has decided it is time to act like Ghost Rider. Whipping his shirt-now-turned-flaming chain around above his head, he slams it on the ground an yells, “Hell Fire!” Well, that doesn’t sit too well with mom, so she tells him to stop saying that. What follows next? A shirt-spin, floor slam, and a foreboding, “Hell Fire!” Well, that wasn’t a kid merely forgetting that he had been told to stop, he just out right disregarded his mom. So I calmly called him over, let him know that he had disobeyed his mom, and disciplined him. Afterwards, I pulled him close and placed him in my lap as I was explaining to him that no one is angry with him. But he made it abundantly clear that he didn’t want to be near me. He stiffened every muscle he had and pulled away from me. I hugged him and let him go brush his teeth.

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“The D@*# show destroyed my family”

This is the slightly edited version of what Billy Ray Cyrus told GQ Magazine in an interview for its March publication. Billy links the failure of his marriage, his failure as a father, and Miley’s failure to behave like a respectable human being to a Disney TV show that aired from 2006 to 2011 – Hannah Montana.

Seeing what he and Disney have conceived in the form of his daughter Miley, Billy now wishes he could step in and protect her from all the dangerous things and people that his now 18 year old daughter has surrounded herself with. He regrets not stepping in sooner and putting a stop to it all saying that he wishes he had listened to the advice of others when they told him that he didn’t need to be a friend to Miley but a parent. Read the rest of this entry »


Posted by on February 16, 2011 in Culture, Parenthood


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“Pop” Goes the Nursery:

There is a phenomenon in America that has happened so rapidly that most Americans haven’t even have time to think it over. Three astounding things about this phenomenon: the movement is led by children,the children it’s taking in it’s wake are our little girls (some 40+ year old women are also among this group), and the thing they’re being fed is a romance and sensuality that stirs a seeking an fulfillment for things not yet righteously attainable (or apparently never achieved in the older crowd).

One of the main children in the spotlight at the moment leading this phenomenon is Justin Bieber. Read the rest of this entry »

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Posted by on January 31, 2011 in Culture, Parenthood


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The Most Influential Man In My Life

The 25th of this month is the birthday of the man who has most influenced my life (although he may not wish to claim it at times, as I make waves by breaking from the conventional). Sadly I believe he doesn’t really know that he holds this position, and it’s my fault. I didn’t even realize he held that position for the longest time. I was more enamored with men who appeared more influential over crowds, or commanded more respect from the public due to massive visibility. There were times in my life I sacrificed more to gain the attention and admiration of my temporary heroes than him – all the while he should have been my hero. Now that I’m older, married, and have children I see how he has influenced me more than any other individual. My Father, Tony Pulliam, has set the example for me when it comes to following The LORD’s leading regardless of what others may be saying in opposition to it. He has set the example of not being afraid to challenge the settled norm in established beliefs by bringing them under examination of God’s Word. (I still remember him searching out if he was really pretirbulational and why; or why he should be KJV-only.) I have seen him sacrifice for his family, and remain true to mom, even though I know it would have been a quick fix to alleviate the tension and pressures of married life/fatherhood by just walking out (which so many males, they’re not real men, seem to have opted for).

In my father I have seen the boldness of Martin Luther in standing for conviction. I have seen the commitment of Hudson Taylor in being willing to forsake whatever was necessary to follow God. I have seen the humility of Peter, most don’t think Peter a humble man, but you can’t mess up like Peter and not be humble. My dad has come face to face and apologized for his failures; realizing his inadequacy yet not relinquishing his responsibility. In short, I have seen Jesus Christ in my Dad. I know he’s not perfect, I inherited some of his less desirable traits for sure, but he is a man who seeks God with his entire being, a man who isn’t afraid to admit he is wrong and will repent when necessary. A man, who can be quirky with some of his standards and decisions, but who I highly respect for the stand he takes on them. He has taught me how to love my wife and kids, He taught me to think through things and not just accept the common accepted opinion, but to stand upon Scripture alone. (so for those of you who hate that I am so stink’n analytical, you can blame my Father for that one!)
I love my Dad and am proud to say that through the years he has tried to find ways to connect with me – stock car racing, deer hunting, etc – most of which I wasn’t really interested in; but after all the dust settled, the thing that my Dad and I have found that brings us together is The LORD. God is good to me, and has given me a Father with a humble heart and a passion for godliness, and has given me a love for Him also; although I don’t claim to have the humility my Dad does.

Dad, I want to tell you, “Happy Birthday! I thank God for you. You’ve taught me more about seeking God than you know. I love you, Dad!”


Posted by on November 15, 2010 in Family, Parenthood


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