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A Tale of Two Sons

There was a king with two sons. Twins they were, nearly identical.. well, hair and eye color was different, but on the inside (the part that matters most) they were identical. Mannerisms, humor, etc. there was no mistaking who their father was.

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Posted by on September 8, 2013 in Devotion, Evangelism, God, Jesus Christ

 

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Worry Warts

In Life Group yesterday, which is traditionally called Sunday School, my Life Group teacher and friend discussed the topic of worry. He was honest in sharing his struggles with worry, while some in the class ( myself being one of them) wasn’t so quick to let others know they struggles with worry. The truth is, we all have worry warts. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on February 21, 2011 in Christian Life

 

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Seeking Good outside of God – Sin

Wednesday night is the night for one of my favorite shows on TV – Criminal Minds. They always begin and/or end the show with quotes that sum up the moral dilemma in which they will be/have been placed. Last night’s show began with: “No man chooses evil because it is evil;he only mistakes it for happiness, the good he seeks.” Mary Wollstonecraft

The case they were on was concerning a man who was murdering people in order to gain notoriety for an upcoming academic literary work he was to soon publish. Yet it was for the sole purpose of notoriety that he was barbarically slaughtering people, but out of a need to supersede the accomplishments of his father and thus prove his significance in the race of humanity. Oddly enough, he was somehow convinced that the surest way to manifest his prominence and significance to the human race was through killing the human race. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on January 20, 2011 in Christian Life, Culture

 

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Movies, Milkshakes, and Idolatry

I purchased two tickets, one for me and the other for my eldest son, to go watch the new Narnia movie that is showing this Friday night – “Voyage of the Dawn Treader”. I was excited as I would get to spend time with Micaiah (just he and I) and I really wanted to see the movie. I e-mailed my wife from work and had her let Micaiah read how I was taking him to see the movie Friday and had already purchased the tickets. When my second born son expressed that he was feeling cheated because he wasn’t going, Lauren told him she would buy him a milkshake on that night. Micaiah heard he wasn’t getting a milk shake and said he would rather not go to the movies because a milkshake was way better than watching Narnia.

I was genuinely hurt as a father. My son had just chosen a milkshake over his father. I had planned it, I had gone out of my way to purchase the tickets, made sure my schedule was clear so we could spend time together and he regards it as nothing and freely trades it for a milkshake and suggests to me that I take his younger brother. He didn’t know what he was doing, he was just thinking of himself. As I thought about this, I caught just a glimpse of what we do to God. We get so caught up in the milkshakes (and other blessings), that we effortlessly trade them for Him. We (humanity) look at our options and think we would enjoy the milkshake over time with our Creator. And it’s not always that we don’t want the movie either, it’s just that we want it on our terms and relationship with God is of no consequence. Sometimes we know one would place us in the presence of God and we avoid that choice like the plague. We cling to our melting milkshakes as if our life depended on it, while we reject the Giver of life.

The thing Micaiah wanted wasn’t wrong in and of itself, that’s not what saddened me, it was that he wanted that over me. The same choice was made by Adam and Eve in the garden. All of God’s gifts were there, all of creation was theirs to enjoy, and God Himself was with them. Yet they chose the things within life over Life itself.

How foolish, yet everyone of us are born doing the very same thing.What is it that you have valued over God? What is it that you are desiring, unwilling to relinquish, at the expense of experiencing relationship with God? I don’t know if you have children, but try to imagine your child telling you he would rather get a milkshake than to spend time with you enjoying an event you planned especially for him. Last night, I felt just a finite twinge of how idolatry must make God feel. See, I didn’t create my son, I didn’t breathe life into him, I didn’t create everything beautiful that he enjoys, the air he breathes, and so much more that are pointers of my love for him as God did; so my hurt is really not comparable to God’s, yet at the same time it did gives me a glimpse of it.

The chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever.God created us to know Him. He desires to share Himself with us, yet we’re absolutely consumed with lesser things. John Calvin said that the heart of man is an idol factory, and I agree. I was taught another lesson about idolatry last night, and God used movies and milkshakes to do it.

 
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Posted by on December 9, 2010 in Christian Life

 

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Get off Facebook!!!

In Neptune, NJ, we have a prime example of legalism dressed in its most lovely evening gown.  A pastor is mandating that all the married church leaders are to delete their Facebook account. Failure to do so will be evidence of their resignation. Rev. Cedric Miller, the pastor of Living Word Christian Fellowship Church, says that he has done this due to noting that Facebook seems to be causing much of his recent marriage counseling dilemmas as it is rekindling old flames of the past. He has suggested that his congregation at least share their login information with their spouse, and intends to push for all members of his church to abandon Facebook altogether. You can view the link at:

http://www.volunteertv.com/home/headlines/Reverend_to_church_leaders_Thou_shalt_not_Facebook_108707314.html

A few posts ago I briefly broached the topic of legalism and how it adds to God’s Word where rules are concerned. I was going to blog about a different topic, but when I read this I decided that other topic would have to wait until tomorrow. This is a perfect illustration of how legalism presents itself. Now Pastor Miller isn’t adding works to salvation by saying that deleting your Facebook account is a vital part of repentance and must be done in order to be a true Christian. Nor is he saying that a Christian who is on Facebook hasn’t reached as high a spiritual plain as one who has forsaken the social networking site. What he has done, though, is out of concern for others mandated that anyone on the church payroll delete their Facebook account upon penalty of losing their job. This is legalism’s most famous clothing – making rules that are extra-biblical in the name of protecting the weak. She looks like love, she looks like the prime example of true beauty and godliness, but she isn’t. Paul dealt with her in Colossians 2:20-23. The biblical method of dealing with this is to teach people, to strengthen them. But instead this pastor has chosen to create a “controlled environment”. As stated before, the problem with this philosophy is that it keeps people weak.

This seems to fail to meet the method God has chosen for His children as Jesus specifically prayed that God wouldn’t take Christians out of the world, but protect them from the evil one. I believe this Facebook ban, has also failed to recognize that each believer has individual soul liberty (Paul addresses this in Romans ch. 14). The issue within the church is not Facebook, as Facebook is a tool that can be used for good or evil. The issue is that there are people within his congregation that are consumed with lust. Banning as many people as possible from Facebook is not addressing the root, it’s just masking the problem; all the while keeping the people weak and without discernment.

His suggesting that his congregants share their login information with their spouses is absolutely wonderful! My wife and I have access to each others e-mail and Facebook, although we never use the others. I don’t give her mine so she will give me hers because I don’t trust her. I trust my wife. I give her mine because it helps hold me accountable. I’ve not been tempted to use Facebook in an unfaithful manner, but this is an extra precaution I take, and it also shows her that anything I have is an open book. My wife and I are one. Now some married couples may not share their info, and that is fine also. It’s not mandatory, it’s a decision I have made. But enough about me and my wife – For the pastor to convince members to delete their Facebook accounts is not really addressing the problem. And there is a strong possibility that if his entire congregation, or most of them, do follow His suggestions then there will be an air of superiority toward those who still use Facebook. The going perception could turn into a belief that all those on Facebook are unfaithful to their spouse, or soon will be. Before long using “facebook” could be called worldly and “sinful”; just like the Independent Fundamentalists groups of 30 years ago spoke of going to the movie theatre or playing cards.

Now if the individual knows he/she is weak, then they may need to abstain from Facebook to maintain their commitment to their spouse. But to mandate this across the board, or exercise control over those under him, is to step beyond his biblical jurisdiction. A pastor is to strengthen the brothers/sisters, he is to feed the flock of God and help them learn to walk by the spirit. It is easier to keep them weak by removing any sort of possible trial causing event in their life, giving them blinders and an extra rulebook to walk by. I’m not saying that this pastor has ACTUALLY done all this in every instance of his ministry. I’m sure this man is a good pastor and is trying his best to love those in his church. I’m simply stating my disagreement with this sole action he has done, not attempting to indicate it is common practice for his entire ministry. If Pastor Cedric Miller were to ever read this (not that I flatter myself into thinking I’m important enough for him to actually read) then I hope he sees that I am not personally attacking him. I am sure he has nothing but the best intentions behind his actions. I am isolating this one instance and dissecting it, not him – he just happens to be the one that has provided the case study. I’m attempting to show what I believe to be the faulty philosophy behind it – although well meaning it may be.

Also, I don’t think I’m above falling in my marriage or fidelity to my spouse. I am in need of constant grace just like any other fallen human, but I don’t think this pastor’s actions are within his biblical jurisdiction, or wise. Paul realized that his preaching the gospel of grace was being misunderstood and misconstrued by some. They were of the opinion that if “where sin abounds, grace much more abounds” then why not sin more so God can glorify Himself by giving even more grace?! They were stumbling all over grace. But Paul didn’t change what he was teaching. He didn’t tell them lies to keep them from stumbling; he continued to proclaim free grace and to teach them how to live with this truth and not exploit it. I believe this is what we in the church should do when it comes to matters we face in our culture such as the one mentioned above.

I would say, if it were up to me to say (that’s the nice thing about blogs, whether it is mine to say or not in reality; on my blog it’s always mine to say), that if Facebook is causing you to stumble (if old passions for old flames are being rekindled) even in the slightest, then you need to either delete your account or only be on Facebook with your spouse present (some even create a joint Facebook account combining their and their spouses name) – the one you choose depends on the power of the temptation. In short flee fornication, fleeing taking one of the two forms mentioned above. BUT! If Facebook does not pose this temptation for you, then you need not delete your account. Share it with you spouse if you choose, but there is no biblical basis for me to mandate that you remove Facebook from your internet life. If you’re addicted to Facebook – if it’s keeping you from fulfilling your God given responsibilities, or is holding a place in your heart to that only God should hold (you’d be amazed at what the human heart can/will worship) – if Facebook is hindering your sanctification – GET OFF FACEBOOK! But if not, you can use it as it’s not a sin.

PS. I will pray for those marriages in his church that are being strained or torn apart. I do not fault the pastor for this. It’s not as if he has built weak marriages. I hope he doesn’t fault himself for it either. I also pray for that pastor as he has a huge issue on his hands and needs God’s wisdom to address. I encourage you to do the same.

 

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